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NARCISSISM – POTENTIAL HEALTHY TRAIT?

“The self-preservation or desire and energy that drives one’s instinct to survive is a healthy trait termed primary narcissism” -Sigmund Freud Can narcissism be healthy? There is this saying that; “too much of everything is not good” does that...

WHAT GUARANTEES HAPPINESS ?

Remember happiness is not in tomorrow/in the future, it is in today and it exists in the little things around and within us but we fail to notice because we too busy looking for it far into the future. So, be intentional and live like tomorrow may not exist -because it may not-

I DON’T WANT A RELATIONSHIP! OR DO I?

The pictures you see do not tell the story of what goes on behind the camera. So, when you see these internet relationships, do not use them as yardsticks for getting into a relationship.

DON’T SHUT OUT YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS!

“I am not good enough”, “I can’t do it”, “I am a failure”, “no one cares about me”, “I am so stupid”, “I hate myself”, "who would love a person like me".

SELF-AWARENESS – A KEY TO SELF-MASTERY

On the journey towards Self-Mastery, there are chances that we might subconsciously self-sabotage our development because in as much we fear failure, we also fear the unknown nature of success and what it brings. We are conditioned to be comfortable in a state called Homeostasis “a state of balance that is known to us and that we are comfortable in”. So, any attempt at change either positive or negative, will psychologically met a rebuff and your brain will try to return to the state of homeostasis that it is used to.

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